The Big Day
Nothing can be stressed more here than be Clean.
Wait.... one more time:
Nothing can be stressed more here than be Clean.
Be freshly showered, brush your teeth, comb your hair, and be dressed !!
Answering the door in your purple silk boxers works fine for scaring away Jehovah Witnesses but it is bad for a first meeting. The only pleasure you will have is the probability of watching her walk away; especially if this is your first time.
Be drug free and have nothing in the room if you partake in that sort of thing.
Falling down drunk is also a bad idea. Companions of a certain caliber will walk immediately if you fall into either two of these categories.
There she is, standing in the doorway, offer her your hand invite her in and offer her a seat. Ask if she wants something to drink. If you are really savvy, a fresh vase of her favorite flowers is a great touch and invite her to take them when she leaves. Expect to sit and chat for a little bit to break the ice. Have a glass of, juice, soda or wine. However, don't be put off is she refuses alcoholic beverages nor pushthe issue. Smile, respect it and have something else just in case.
Depending on the area of the country you are in you maybe asked to show her your driver's license. Show for thought and have it out along with her fee in clear view on the coffee table or stand. Whatever you do, don't ask so what am I getting for this?
That's what your research was for and any smart Companion will turn around and walk. Be a considerate client by having the fee in a white envelope in plain sight is best. Some will excuse themselves and go to the bathroom to check all is in order. There are some places the Companion will see the envelope but say nothing or even touch it till the end of the meeting.
After the small chit chat, the Companion may or may not excuse her self to the bathroom while telling you to "get comfortable".
This is your sign to "get undressed". Remember her boundaries and that No means No. If you're still nervous most ladies will sense this and lead through the meeting. Remember attitude is key. If you are polite, act like a gentleman and treat the lady with respect and dignity, you are pretty much going to have a good time.
Expect Condoms to be used.
DONT EVEN ASK NOT TO!
If the lady offers a BBBJ, only you can decide if you can accept the risk. Some ladies will, some ladies won't. If you can't accept the risk, ask her to use a condom. Some ladies will kiss, some won't. All of these things should be no surprise to you if you have done your homework. Expect some more small talk at the end. If you are the type who writes reviews ask her if you may write one, if you don't write reviews then just don't offer. Some ladies will ask you to write a review. If you're not comfortable writing one just let her know. Don't promise one and fail to follow up. Other ladies will not want a review no matter what. Respect her wishes here.
Some Companions require no tipping, however it is ALWAYS a good idea, especially if she has gone extra mile. Let's be honest, he who tips best, get the best service in the long run. The Companions always appreciate them.
Follow Up
Some clients send a short email within a couple of days thanking the companion or agency owner for the time spent. This is the polite thing to do and it keeps the door open for future meetings. When dealing with an agency it's not unheard of to call and let them know you were pleased. After all every legitimate business owner wants constructive feed back.
The follow up doesn't mean send an email everyday or a phone call either. Just a short Thank you till the next time will do. The Bottom line is to treat the Companion like a lady, with dignity and the way you expect to be treated. Act with kindness, manners and respect and the respect will be returned by the Companion. If you have taken the time to research and find a Companion who fits your needs, there is no reason you should not have an enjoyable experience.
